city or small town

In my hometown in Estonia, when there is a concert, I should go! Because it is a rare event!

In Birmingham, when I feel I want to go to a concert, I just have to look some websites and it is quite likely I can find a suitable one! Only problem is, I don't know who to invite with me, I don't want to go with somebody who does not like this music, but someone who would equally happily go alone. So I go alone. Too many times have I invited someone to cinema to see a good film they did not like (K :)). Or to an exhibition. I almost invited H to a photo exhibition a few weeks ago, luckily she started telling me about a bad experience when she went to an exhibition last time. I did not know anything about the topics of the one I wanted to go to (it was a group of local photographers), so maybe better  she did not come!